This might come as a shock to many people but for the month of January, I Big mama, have existed happily with only one guy. The fact that this man who has single-handedly managed to make me happy has been none other than Q might still surprise a few souls. Anyway, as i recount the happenings on the last day of this month, I must say I'm extremely satisfied with my decision.
Q has been an anchor when I was feeling down, he listened when i needed to talk, offered me useful advice when i needed it but most of all, he made beautiful love to me during this month. Already, Ive made plans to spend the evening with him at our favourite comedy night despite it being a day after the Biker's birthday which I'd all but forgotten.
This should not be difficult to envisage considering that I've spoken with the Biker just twice since this year begun. After I ushered in the new year with the Biker (night prayers on the 31st), I proceeded to do the same with Q (Lovemaking on the 1st) and have since not regretted my decision. I've not been on talking terms with the Biker following a fall out in which I proposed that we remain "friends without benefits." He's not taken too kindly to my suggestion and we resorted to communicating by text.
As for K, the ex and everyone else, all I can say is that their timing surely sucks. Just when I'm living this blissful life with Q, they are all pressurising me to spare some time for them. As we enter February, all I can say is that I have big plans in maintaining the status quo seeing as it has only brought me happiness.